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Empowerment
We want to empower women and have decided to do so through words.  Come to this page for informational and positive points dealing with understanding Life and Philosophy

It's always wise to take instructions when someone is motivating you to become who you are supposed to be.  In order to be a successful woman, you will need advice, strength, and wisdom.  This page is similar to a mini book club.  The book that's being utilized for the next couple of months has assisted me and still helps me through life's obstacles.

 


 

I am sitting here thinking, what book should I highlight?  But while tapping my fingers in a deep thought of WHO? I realized that I never highlighted my book!  Genuis!  So, this month, we highlight CORPORATE Chics;  the book that has become a brand and movement.  Koilya Privil, the main character in the book, will be giving you her life lessons.

 

 
Life
 
~ Life --- The opportunity of life is to serve. The secret of life is to dare. The spice of life is to befriend. 

Koilya Privil 101

Koilya Privil 101 includes classes in friendship, disappointments, betrayal, work, selfishness, reality, sacrifice, and lastly love and acknowledgement…
I learned valuable lessons in each course. (KP)

 
Lessons

Friendship

“People come N2 your life 4 a reason, season or a lifetime. When U figure out which it is, U know EXACTLY what 2 Do!” ~Michelle Vento 

Every relationship--family, friendship, love & marriage-is about growth and development.  There are certain skills & strengths we must developIf life is about learning and growing, why do we think our relationships are beyond life's classroom?


Disappointments

Through disappointing situations, I learned the value of anticipation, confidence, and long suffering.  In my Disappointments class, I learned, everyone has a due season. Just because u think u r deserving of something doesn't mean u r ready 4 it. 

Betrayal

Betrayal is presented with half truths and intentional deceit. Because of grace & mercy.  I was able to pass this class.  But the Betrayal was a difficult class and the hardest to pass. 

Work

Work is just what it is and it is only a means to an end.  I was so caught up with work and corporate drama; I was constantly pulled away... ...from really tapping N2 my talents and utilizing it as a resource. "Work" and not a career will do that to u.
So remember, work is what it is and if you are pursuing a goal/career outside of work, see it through until that goal is accomplished.


Selfishness

This was another class that almost stopped me from graduating to the next part of my life. 
I realized that if I wanted to graduate, I had to apply unconditional love 2 my life.  I also thought that I should be happy while someone else suffered.  This course taught the definitionEmotional human love is selfish and I thought I deserved happiness based off that theory alone. 

Reality

All life's answers lie within but we must nourish ourselves with positivity, it's the only way 2 passSince your mind will respond 2 what is said 2 it, speak 2 the conditions N your life.  This was my reality.

Sacrifice

If U really want 2 know what U believe, look at the people-conditions-& situations N your environment. They R the reflection of your own B.S.  There must be a genuine, loving support for the "self" 2 make a change.  When U support yourself N making needed changes, U R supporting your own growth. Growth is the commitment 2 being, doing & having the best.  It takes a deep commitment 2 change & an even deeper commitment 2 grow.” Ralph Ellison 

Love

The beauty of life is to give. The joy of life is to love... (Author Unknown)                                      

Love---is the one thing that still stands when all else has fallen... 
Love knows no limits 2 its endurance-no end 2 its trust-no fading of its hope. It does small tasks-can outlast N E thing & is the 1 thing that will outlive everything... 
With the right advice & through learning from mistakes, we as women are fully equipped 2 handle life's long but possible journey.


My story is the story of many women. The main idea of the book is to convey that there are several barriers that repress women....It is an emotional, controversial, but inspirational story of diverse women who utilized life lessons as a foundation for their success

Points to Always Remember

ü      Trust your head & your first thought regardless of what others may say. Seek comfort in the garden, seek adventure on the mountain, but seek the truth within yourselfI learned that the strength you need, the answer you want,  and the solution that will turn a situation around, is you. 
ü      People can only be as good as their thoughts, as successful as mental pattern, as progressive as their ideas. 
ü       There R 2 things over which U have complete dominion, authority & control over---Your mind & your mouth. ~Molefi Asante 

ü       It is not your environment; your history; education or ability; it is the quality of your mind that predicts your future

ü      U R responsible 4 your own happiness. Circumstances beyond your control may put impediments in your path, BUT there must be barriers.  Finding out how to get around barriers and continue on your chosen way is the secret of successful living. 
Koilya Privil (KP)

Corporate Chics (not sheek, Chicks!) is a mindset that is
 
 unstoppable, courageous, and inspirational. It is not about women
 
in business suits who exploit their accomplishments. Its a
 
movement and she is U.
 


Archive

March 2010 ~ June 2010 Empowerment
This is the SECRET to Life

 


The Law of Attraction Defined
The phrase Law of Attraction, used widely by New Thought writers, refers to the idea that thoughts influence chance. The Law of Attraction argues that thoughts (both conscious and unconscious) can affect things outside the head, not just through motivation, but by other means. The Law of Attraction says that which is like unto itself is drawn. Essentially, "if you really want something and truly believe it's possible, you'll get it", but putting a lot of attention and thought onto something you don't want means you'll probably get that too.



February 2010 Empowerment

Rule 6


January 2010 Empowerment

Rule 5: Learning does not End


December 2009 Empowerment

Rule 4: A Lesson is Repeated Until Learned

Rule 4


November 2009 Empowerment

Rule 3: There Are no Mistakes, Only Lessons

Rule 3


October 2009 Empowerment

Rule 2: You Will Be Presented with Lessons
Rule 2


September 2009 Empowerment

Rule 8: What You Make of Your Life is Up to You

Rule 8


August 2009 Empowerment
The 10 Rules of Life